Changing position often helps keep muscles from freezing into painful, uncomfortable, rock-hard blobs.
One of the most wonderful things about being with a partner for a long time, and knowing each other, is communication skills are often developed along the way.
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This precludes the danger of a whip or other implement striking an area that could cause the bottom (receiver) injury or damage.
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