Whether you agree with me it of not, you cannot deny that money takes on a particularly pivotal role in the dating world.
I would imagine that every woman reading this has her own opinion about the role that money takes, (or should take) in male/female interactions.
Today men are on their weakest economic footing vis-à-vis women in history.
But do we really believe it’s because they haven’t got the dosh to take us out?
a new outfit or something that is going to last a long time, or you can take a risk and spend it on a date with a woman you barely know, (and if things go badly, it’s completely wasted) what would you do?
Typically men are very resourceful as well as reluctant to take any sort of financial risk, even if they’ve got plenty of money.
Here are the top two reasons why you might have been dealing with such penny-pinchers…
Most men, even when not restricted by their disposable income, are overwhelmed with alternative means of how they spend their money; ski trips with their friends, refurnishing their apartment… Assuming that they do have the money to allocate to their dating life, think of this from a man’s perspective; in the way that men think (or as close to that as you can possibly comprehend! If you’ve got £200 to spend, and you can either take the ‘safe’ option of investing in an “asset” i.e.
Of course not: they’re stingy, and you want to know why!
Being frank with yourself will not only offer you an opportunity for self-improvement (if needed), it may also increase the chances of meeting your partner in the middle, diffusing tension before it arises. Is money already a frequent source of conflict between you?
The truth is, fighting over money early on in a relationship probably signifies basic incompatibility and portends more strife down the road.
With time he will realize that you’re not after him for the money.
Surveys designed to reveal the top sources of stress in troubled marriages consistently identify one thing that rises above the rest.
The second reason may actually come as a surprise to you.