Some wrote that they’d never known sexuality without BDSM; others were introduced to kink by a partner later on.
And some, like Sysiphe, who now identifies as a dominant masochist, encountered the scene through parties and other kink community gatherings.
And couples who enjoy occasional power play but who are not exclusively into often remark that it enhances their non-BDSM vanilla” sex because the practice they get negotiating scenes makes it easier to discuss other aspects of their sexuality The skills required for include trust, clear communication, self-acceptance, and acceptance of the other person.
I actually read it last year while in a long term relationship with a vanilla girl, and after reading it several times, getting therapy together etc, I finally brought myself around to realizing that I need a truly kinky partner in my life.
I have heard a few stories about doms who felt unable to bring BDSM into initially-vanilla relationships, or were less dominant as they became more attached to a kinky partner.No matter if you’re an experienced player or just kink-curious, will allow you to become part of the fetish scene that will push you to the very limits of your sexual fantasies.