Frances is here to help us see things as they really are instead of how we want to see them.Below, she takes us through a relationship reality check to keep your head clear at every stage of the relationship: On the first date…In fact, she’s known for helping women weed out the wrong men right on the first date.In order to do that, she devised a way to tell whether a guy wants the same things as you, which should be the foundation of any long-term relationship (we discussed it here on Smitten a few years ago).“This guy’s going to go into a full-court press right away.
Raise your hand if you ever fudged the facts in your mind because you really wanted to see things through rose-colored glasses with a promising guy [raises hand! Well, the fudging-of-facts bit carries on throughout a relationship, sometimes keeping us committed to the wrong guy for months (or years).
By the time he sees you, you feel like you’ve already been dating for three weeks.
It’s kind of like putting Miracle Gro on a sexual conquest.
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Again, please keep their identity a secret Click on the "Continue" button search with your zip/postal code.“If his intentions are sexual, the nature of the conversations will be sexual,” says Frances.