Your attracting abilities are at their highest when you're in a state of love and joy, so do whatever you need to do to get into a happy state of mind. Now close your eyes (or look at your vision board if you have one) and visualize having your soul mate in your life. Years ago when I first started dating my husband, every night before I went to sleep, I'd visualize us getting married on a beach in Hawaii. It wasn't until after we had been married for a few weeks that I realized I had visualized our exact wedding years before. Hold this vision of you and your soul mate together.
For some reason, online dating services have become second nature in the UK since.
But you have to be open to whatever the answer may be and willing to take action.